Friend-Plants

The past two days have been very eye opening for me. I have realized that I have put some friends on the back burner as I worked alot, hung out with work friends and planned summer plans. Recently I found out a friend was just a friendplant to me..what is a “friend-plant” you ask? Well, like implants, they are artificial, fake, full of air/plastic/etc…they make your life bigger and better but eventually let you down in the end because they aren’t REAL. I have found out two relaly good friends of mine have just talked about me behind my back, said rumors and lies about me and just acted two faced…well after a long H2H to my real gal pals, I am letting all friend-plants go…no I will not respnd to their calls or texts, no I will not act like their friend to their faces and no, I will never be disrespected again. Do you guys have any “friend-plants?” I am usually a “give a second chance” kind of person, but honestly, not anymore. Id rather have 3 BFFs than 30 acquaintances…ya know? After getting like 5 FaceBook messages from REAL friends saying people missed me, I realized what and who are important…thank goodness I figured this out now :)

Onto today!

Breakfast was delicious and eaten straight from the carton!

Remainder of an Oikos yogurt (1 cup)
2/3 cup Koala Crisp cereal
5 sliced strawbs :)


I headed to work and surprise surprise, weather was on/off today…at least Kevin entertained me whilst I read some HP action :)

Like clockwork, my tummy knew lunch was ready since breakie wasn’t so big on protein…I enjoyed a hot Orange Spice tea whilst I waited til lunch break…

Wrap (1 flat out, 1 TBSP tomato basil hummus, 3 slices deli chix, mustard, hot sauce, 1 slice o’ Montaray cheese)

Dessert: A COCO cookie :) I love these…so sweet and chocolatey, but also a bit salty! I love the salty/sweet combo…

unpictured: a small skim latte made by me :)


Sun Chips


Honey Greek Yogurt


I hurried home with my 16 dollars in tipz and since a cloud seemed to want to rain only on me I quickly dried my hair and got ready for a workout…

32 minutes elliptical (level 6/8) 284 calories burned 1.7 miles 21 minute run 2.3 miles 226 calories burned total: 53 minutes, 510 cals burned, HR- ave. 164, highest, 194

great, sweaty sesh!

Dinner whilst enjoying some 40 year old Virgin waxing action, on TBS…

3/4 cup Trader Joes Brown Rice (the microwaved bag! Love this stuff!)
1/2 cup TJ’s Black Beans
1/2 medium avocado
lots of hot sauce and peach salsa


and second dessert hahaha—I may or may not have bitten into this before din din :)

yes another salty/sweet cookie and a small, warmed up square of PB Puffin blondie

bliss.


I LOve my sweets…but maybs I should not have 3 in a day? tum tum ache…oh well, worth it.

Friday night deabauch could ensue…I know Saturday Shenanigans are totz in the picture since a mister “secret” crush texted me to hang…he just doesnt know how perf we are for one another lol….

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Posted on July 18, 2009, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. 17 Comments.

  1. I hate when people act like a two face! Screw them! Haha.

  2. I've gotten rid of MANY (ugh, too many) "friend-plants" over the past few years, and it feels amazing. Here's to REAL PEOPLE, and down with the haters/fakers.Enjoy your night and feel 100% better soon, girl!!

  3. ugh those people do not deserve to be friends with you! seriously good for you to make a decision to go on without them.yumo desserts! and love the mexi dinner girl!

  4. oh yes i live in wpb and that is basically all there is here! but i have the boy and hopefully better people in the fall when i move.

  5. blah i'm glad i got all the friend-plants out of my life early on.painful, but worth it to end up happy.have a wonderful night with your puffin blondie..im jealin' over here!

  6. Goodness, I'm sorry about the friendplant situation. I feel like I have weeded out the friendplants in my life, thank goodness! It'll all work out!

  7. Crushes are the best… you know, before they start getting all messy and confusing.Have a great weekend!

  8. And sorry to hear about your "friend-plants", it's hard to get rid of those but it's worth it. Friend's should not bring you down, they are suppose to be your partners in crime, some one to have fun with, or to do absolutely nothing with but still have a blast, they should not bring you down.Good luck

  9. friend plants are really uncool! First you think wow, they look so real and beautiful but when you take a look really closely, super fake and awful and not worth keeping. I've dealt with those not-so-great friend plants before so I know how you're feeling. It's not the best one but you are an amazing person and in the end they will be the ones feeling bad for losing you. Thank goodness for the super trooper friends and good eats!

  10. Amen to leaving false friends. They are definitely not worth your time. I've always said I would rather have a few really good people around me than a dozen crappy friends.

  11. So glad you got those people out of your life, you don't need nor deserve to have their bullsh!t in your life – and most of all – they don't deserve you! You're way too much of a good person for them. Screw emmm'!I love your eats – homemade latte's are my fave, no one can make it as perfect as the individual can, right?! Love all the sweets, I live for sweets, haha! Dinner ALWAYS has to be followed (or started!) with a sweet treat.Enjoy your day!Loveya!Meg

  12. I totally get what you mean. Good for you for finding who your REAL friends are :) Loving the eats, as always!<3 jessxoxo

  13. That's good that you realized there's more to life than work! Sometimes we just get way too caught up in it all…And I totally agree with you on having the close friends. You can have a ton of acquaintences but then who will you turn to when you really need someone?!

  14. wow I am so sorry to hear that your "friends" were total jerks! Glad that you know who your real friends are!now I am craving those sun chips! French Onion used to be my favorite flavor – dangerous to have in the house :)

  15. a beautiul, sweet, and amazing girl you like doesn't need any friendplants! just like Pam Anderson and her two hugh jass *girlfriends* – you're way better without 'em ;) ! love you, chica!

  16. I agree with Matt, screw the friend plants!! :) I hateeeee phony balognea people.Your eats look delicious! I could go for one of those cookies right now for dessert yum yum

  17. friends definatly come and go. but those you have planted roots with you will always stay in your petals. dont spend time with the flowers that were blown in by the wind.super phenom. eats btw. yuum

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